The class bully picked on Raine again.
At lunch break, Raine didn’t come out of the gate on time…so I went inside to his classroom. I was told that the principal brought Raine to the school clinic. When he arrived and I saw him for the first time, his right eye was swollen and red. Both eyes have red scratches around. The bully threw crayons at Raine’s face and hit the eyes. That’s what I’ve been told.
WTF?!
I know Raine can be makulit and malikot. But he wouldn’t intentionally hurt anyone. If he gets hurt? That’s another story. He will really swing back at any kid who punched him or something. To get even!
Now this kid, the bully. He’s got some level of autism, I’ve been told. He is thrice the size of Raine and seem to have fun picking on his classmates. He is almost 8 years old, yet still in grade 1.
I caught him twice already.
Raine was once coming out of their room, dragging his wheeled-bag and the bully kid came after Raine’s bag kicking it will all his might. I told him to stop. (Ang mata ko nangdidilat). C’mon, what’s his pain? Kicking a helpless bag?? What will you get from that?! He did stop though. But not right away.
One afternoon…I was at the waiting area. Raine was playing inside. Then Raine came to where I was sitting to get water. In the process, Raine passed by in front of the bully. The bully then automatically said to Raine: pangit!!!
Pangit my ass. Siya nga itong pangit, sa totoo lang. (Mukha pang abnormal ang facial expression!) But the mom was a few steps away. I didn’t say anything back. As if I didn’t hear anything. Besides what will I gain kung patulan ko ang bata right? Raine then went back to playing. Before going home that afternoon…upon going out, the kid then said something to Raine again: B -A-B-O-Y!
What??!!!!! Ano bang problema nya, walang ka-abog-abog sabihan nya ang anak ko ng baboy???!!!
I exchanged looked with another mom. Once they were out of sight, with the other mom, we said together: Eh sya nga tong baboy!
Gosh. I’ve been meaning to talk to the kid’s mom since last month. But I’ve been warned that the mom always takes her kid’s side. What am I to do?
Still I wanna talk to the mom. It’s not her kid ending up in the clinic. It’s my kid!
Dumugo lang si Raine isang araw because of that bully? Makikita nila pano mag-huramentado si Gloria! So I’m not gonna wait for that to happen. I’m gonna act now. ![]()
September 8th, 2009 at 4:02 pm
This reminds me of my nephew na sinaksak ng classmate nya ng pencil, yung lead talaga na matulis, dugo ang pisngi at isinugod sa clinic. To think this is an exclusive school for the boys in Makati. In fairness nag apologize talaga yung parents pati yung bata sa kapatid ko. These things really happen, public or private school man. Siguro kulitan talaga sa loob. But in your son’s case, mukhang me problema nga sa bully at sa nanay nya.
September 8th, 2009 at 4:08 pm
yeah. malaki ang problema sa nanay ng bully! hahaha. grabe, as in riot yata sa loob. PRIVATE school din anak ko at catholic school pa. pero despite that ang gulo pa rin ng mga bata.
but then may bata ba these days na di magulo?? hahaha!!!
grabe, wag naman sanang matusok ng pencil ang anak ko. at baka matusok ko din ng pencil yung batang gumawa.
hahahahha!!! kidding. hehe.
September 9th, 2009 at 4:52 am
Talk to the mom, but keep your cool. Inform her of what her child did to yours.
September 10th, 2009 at 1:41 pm
Ei Glo,
Kelangan mo ng back-up (kunyari makakarating ako dyan)? Aba aba di pwede yang ganyan. Kahit ba naman may degree ng autism dapat turuan/pangaralan pa din ng tama o maling ugali ng magulang (mas pa nga dapat). The principal should also know that this is not the first time it happened. Hay…kisses ke raine
September 10th, 2009 at 1:54 pm
thank you ging. hahaha!! halika na, para back-up kita. yes i told the principal it’s like daily raine has an issue with that kid.
eh wala eh, seems ang mother in denial sa condition ng anak nya. bahala silang mag-ina.
wag lang maulit ulit ang nang-yari. kasi kung grabeng harm nangyari kay raine…like kung nabulag or dumugo ang mata?? gosh…makikita nila pano sumabog ang mount mayon sa harapan nila.
hahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!